One Honest Match TEST
One Honest Match

Dating, with rules.

  1. You answer the real questions on video.
  2. One match at a time.
  3. 24 hours of chat silence ends the match. No games, no BS.
  4. When it ends, it ends. Former matches never see each other again.
  5. Your videos are private. Only the person you choose can watch.

Not for everyone. That's the point.

I built One Honest Match because the big dating apps reward games, and I was done playing them. One person made this, and one person runs it.

Dawa Lama, founder

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One step before your profile: the questions

One Honest Match runs on questions its members choose. Vote on the questions the people you want to meet will answer on video: upvote the ones you would want answered, downvote the ones you would not. Your votes count in the standings the moment you submit each ballot, finished profile or not. You can change any vote until you submit that ballot; after that it is final.

The question vote

Each voting cycle, members pick one new question for each list. The winning question joins the set the members on that list answer, and the least popular question makes way. A pick counts as soon as you submit it, and you can change it until you do. You can also suggest a question of your own, one per list per cycle; if it is approved, members can pick it next cycle.

Waiting for your pool

Your month does not start, and you are not charged, until at least 25 people near you are ready. Your profile is complete, and it already counts toward other people's pools.

You can already meet people free. Send up to 2 likes a day from the Discover tab, and like back anyone who likes you. Your $20 month starts when 25 people are near you, and raises you to 25 likes a day.

While you wait

Help us build the core foundation of your dating app.

Vote for the questions that matter most to you. If a question you really want is not featured, you can submit your own custom question.

Discover

Step 1: Likes you

Approve a like to unlock each other's videos. Nothing is a match yet.

This account is closed

My match

My profile

Help us build the core foundation of your dating app.

Vote for the questions that matter most to you. If a question you really want is not featured, you can submit your own custom question.

The question vote

Each cycle, pick the question you want added to the set, and suggest one of your own. Your pick counts as soon as you submit it.

Fields marked * are required.

Set at signup. To change this, contact support.

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Location: not set

Hometown: not set

Trusted contact (optional). If you and a match set a meeting plan, you can email it to this person.

Your location

My profile

0 of 5 required answers approved

Your videos are private. Only the person you choose can watch them, through a private link that expires.

How we keep this honest and safe

Nobody sees your videos until you both say yes, and nobody can message you until you both say yes again after watching.

Before you meet, you can send your meeting plan to someone you trust, straight from the app.

After you meet, you check in privately. Nobody sees it, not even your match, and nobody here monitors it.

Every report is read by a person, with the conversation, before anything counts against anyone.

Best answers run 30 to 45 seconds. Minimum 30, maximum 1 minute.

Talk to one person, not to a camera.